Matthew McConaughey won an Oscar. And, boy, are Christians happy about it. I mean, Christians are jumping up and down for this Texas boy for his big win because he actually thanked God in his acceptance speech. He did, he gave God credit and he thanked his wife like he should and he gave a rambling speech that really made me wonder why they weren’t starting up the music to cut him off. They let Matthew talk for almost four minutes, and the clip of his speech is all over the internet.
Christians are so proud.
And, I can’t blame us. I mean, how often do we hear a major celebrity, an Oscar winner, no less, identifying with us? How often do we get that kind of star power in our corner? It almost makes us seem sort of cool and legitimate.
I liked his speech, although I thought it was a little heavy on the Matthew McConaughey. He’s chasing a hero, who is himself in ten years? Really? But, no matter. He mentioned God and that’s all that counts. It obviously shows that he loves the Lord and lives his life for Him and we will all be fans of his forever because of this speech.
But, there’s one tiny issue with setting Matthew McConaughey up as our next great Christian idol. And, the problem is the movie he won the Oscar for. And pretty much every other movie he’s ever made. (Anyone remember a little film called Magic Mike?) According to pluggedin.com, Dallas Buyer’s Club opens with McConaughey’s character having sex with two girls at the same time in a rodeo stall. That’s only the beginning of the explicit sexual content in the movie. In addition to the nudity, masturbation, and pornography, the film contains over 100 f-words and God’s name is used as a curse word over 20 times.
Matthew McConaughey made this movie, which he was rewarded by Hollywood for making, which goes out into our society and poisons the hearts and minds of our men, women, and young people. And then he gets up to accept his award for making filth that turns hearts away from God, and he thanks God for the opportunity, and Christians applaud him as if he has done something incredible.
We have got to get over our obsession with celebrity and start making connections between what people say and what they actually do. It is never going to be a good thing for Christianity for us to hold these celebrities up as examples of what a Christian should be. If we want to show the world examples of Christianity that should make us cheer, it’ll be our faithful pastors, our grandmothers who have lived quiet sacrificial lives, our friends who would lay down their lives for us, the teachers who go to school every day and live out the commands to love the unlovable and to value every life.
Not Matthew McConaughey. I’m sure he’s a fun guy to hang around with, and I bet he’s a great dad and probably a really good actor. But he is not the next great champion for Christianity.
And that’s probably why I’m not a member of the Academy. Thank you, and good night.
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paintandpolaroids
I agree with this completely!
heather
I am so not liking this blog that is floating around on FB about Matthew McConauhey
It is basically what you would expect from Hollywood except it is from a fellow Christian. I hope I am not publicly reminded of every sin I have committed in my past the moment that I decide to give an open testimony of my faith in front of millions of people. He surely knew that this ridicule would happen and he stood on his faith any way and I am still a fan Non-christians are infamous for blasting “well I don’t go to church because they are hypocrites”, well guess what, we are hypocrites and I sure don’t want to be reminded of my every sin so I am not gonna help in reminding folks of other peoples
paintandpolaroids
I respect your opinion, and I understand where you’re coming from. May I share my opinion with you?
She is in no way “publicly reminding him of his sins”. She is not scolding him or chastising him for any of his actions. She pointed out that it is great that he mentioned God. Which it is, she is not saying hes NOT a christian simply because of his movies. What I got from this blog post is that, his movies are not Christianly. They’re very sexual movies. And things like that aren’t good spiritually. And I mean, I think it is quite ironic that he would thank God for something he won when the thing he won it for isn’t very Christianly. That’s all she is saying in this post. And she is entitled to her own opinions. People may agree or not agree, but non the less. She can have her opinion.
I hate using “christian” as a term like that… “christianly” Because Christianity is not a religion, it’s a relationship with God. It’s not about rules and trying to be perfectly christian. And I apologize for not explaining my thoughts clearly.
Anyway, yes, its not the greatest to point someone elses sins out. Everyone sins every single day. And just because someone sins or messes up doesn’t mean they don’t love and follow God.
And the whole “I don’t go to church because they’re hypocrites” thing. I agree. A lot of the times fellow church members who claim that they are Christians don’t live up to the “christian standards” because, well, we’re human. Some people get cross tattoos and wear cross necklaces and they don’t even know who God is. My favorite saying is “Just because you stand in a garage doesn’t mean you’ll become a car.” Which is meaning “Just because you go to church, doesn’t mean you’re a christian.” Yes, they’re are hypocrites in the church, but not all Christians are.
Point is, reread her blog post. She is not by any means trying to point out his sins. She is more pointing out that Christians are obsessing over a man who mentioned God at the Oscars. She merely wants us to look deeper into it. Yes, he did mention God. But his movies don’t reflect that.
james sewell
I guess I’m not qualified to judge Matthew like some are.
paintandpolaroids
I am not judging Matthew.
Elle
My relationship with The Lord is strong. But thank you for the reminder of why I quit going to church. Pretty condescending for you to presume ‘we’ Christians would put Matthew on a pedestal now. I’m pretty sure God doesn’t want us to judge others, rather lead a quiet life by minding our own business. You don’t know his heart and neither do I. As far as his movies…I saw Dallas Buyers Club and it is a true story about a man and the way he lived his life was necessary to tell. I don’t know where Matthew stood in his relationship with Christ when he made ‘Magic Mike’. Maybe he regrets making that movie, maybe not. But that’s between him and God. I choose not to throw stones.
Steph
Amen.
heather
I agree with Elle
jcurrie
This reply is better than the story it’s written about.
Tim
I am pretty sure that you don’t know what it means to follow Jesus (be a Christian). If Jesus led a quiet life and minded his own business He would not have been crucified, would not have rose again from the dead, and there would be no Christianity.
Steph
He was crucified because he was spreading the message that anyone can have a relationship with God, even sinners. He was not crucified because he was pointing out the sins in Zaccheus’ life. That’s what the Pharisees did.
Tim
Regarding “judging” read your Bible, the Bible does not say we are not to judge. As a matter of fact Jesus didn’t say we are not to judge. He said, “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged” (Matthew 7:1-2). Jesus said if you judge, make sure you are living right because others will judge you in the same manner. Love confronts behavior that displeases God and hurts our relationship with Him and others. The article doesn’t throw stones it shows discernment. Something that is gravely lacking in our society.
rcmerrick
1. Christ actually does call us to ‘judge’ others who are of the faith. Judge in love. Help them back on track if they get off track. We have no right, nor should we judge those of the world because they don’t live by the standards or God’s Word. Some times it’s not easy when and how to speak up in Love because you’re taking a risk at how it will be received. Even with the person receiving it because ultimately we don’t know whether or not that person is truly a follower of Christ–His disciple. Only by their Fruit can we best know.
2. Christ’s first love is His Church (He loved her and gave Himself for Her) so I encourage anyone who has been hurt by the Church (and ultimately, I believe that answer to be ‘everyone!’) to really try and seek God for a renewed perspective of His first love, and try to find a good Bible believing church. Not a perfect place, because there is none. An authentic and real place where believers can come and be real and share their broken lives together. Because ultimately it is through their brokenness that Christ can and will do His amazing and live-changing work that only He can do! Ultimately and always for His Glory!!
rcmerrick
1. Christ actually does call us to ‘judge’ others who are of the faith. Judge in love. Help them back on track if they get off track. We have no right, nor should we judge those of the world because they don’t live by the standards or God’s Word. Some times it’s not easy when and how to speak up in Love because you’re taking a risk at how it will be received. Even with the person receiving it because ultimately we don’t know whether or not that person is truly a follower of Christ–His disciple. Only by their Fruit can we best know.
2. Christ’s first love is His Church (He loved her and gave Himself for Her) so I encourage anyone who has been hurt by the Church (and ultimately, I believe that answer to be ‘everyone!’) to really try and seek God for a renewed perspective of His first love, and try to find a good Bible believing church. Not a perfect place, because there is none. An authentic and real place where believers can come and be real and share their broken lives together. Because ultimately it is through their brokenness that Christ can and will do His amazing and live-changing work that only He can do! Ultimately and always for His Glory!!
Andi
AMEN!! I completely agree with you!!!
Cp
I completely disagree with this post! Yes, we are called to live a life that glorifies God, but we are also called to walk with sinners. We are called to be real. We are called to love. We are not called to be the judge of anyone or anything. Let’s encourage future growth and choices for Mr. M and not public ally take such an offensive stance. Christians, let’s let others see what Christ’s love does for us and celebrate that joy!! My prayer is that was are full of grace and love!
Steph
Yes, this kind of post is what sends people running in herds away from Christianity.
Steph
kind of blog I mean
Tim
Wrong – it’s the kind of post that draws people to it. Truly following Jesus is not for everybody. As a matter of fact Jesus said very few people will. “You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it” (Matthew 17:13-14).
Tim
Wrong. Read your Bible. The Bible does not say we are not to judge. As a matter of fact Jesus didn’t say we are not to judge. He said, “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged” (Matthew 7:1-2). Jesus said if you judge makes sure you are living right because others will judge you in the same manner. Love confronts sin and behavior that displeases God and hurts our relationship with others. The article is excellent and the truth!
Lindsey
Ick. My heart goes out to MM. At first, there was an almost audible gasp when he mentioned God. I’m sure Hollywood is condemning him for it. Then for him to be condemned on the other side, too, from those that should be praying for him rather than talking about him. This is a serious splinter/plank in the eye post. Is judgement and self righteousness not just as dangerous of sins as sex, drugs, language, and alcohol? We should NEVER speak on someone else’s salvation. No one knows what the Lord has done in MM’s life as early as today. Ick. Ick. Ick.
Tim
Baloney – what blog did you read? There was no speak about anyone’s salvation. And, MM did not himself refer to himself as being a Christian or being saved. 90%+ of America believes in God. The point of the blog was to chastise those who immediately glorified his speech without discretion.
Vanessa
Christ is the only one who is perfect
If the only Christians allowed to mention God are the ones who live perfectly blameless then Not One of us should dare utter His name.
Jesus died for ALL people not “good”people
I applaud Matthew McCoonaughey that he can love God in Hollywood and in his profession. He has come to God as he is, imperfect and human
And he gave Thanks to who created him.
Mike Zaleski
The movie is, to a large degree, about loving the unlovable and accepting people for who they are as well as about helping those who need it most, all very Christian values. The sexy, nudity, and profanity were all part of the characters (if you want to get Judeo-Christian moralistic about it, it was his rampant sexual activity and drug-doing that ended up getting him AIDS in the first place). Your argument is, sadly, very hypocritical. Having sex and nudity in movies is wrong because what? All films should be tailored to a family audience because why? Do you cover your eyes when unmarried people kiss on TV?
jacksonsharpe
Although I do agree that Christians are too eager to claim someone as a “hero” as soon as they thank God, they also will trash people as soon as they step one toe “out of line” (or at least to what they consider out of line.)
One of the things Christians are awful at doing is making judgements about movies, books, people, ect. without watching, reading, or getting to know the people they are judging. (I have done this plenty of times.)
How can you write an entire blog article with your heaviest argument based on his performance in a movie you never saw?
I did see Dallas Buyers Club, and it was a really difficult movie to watch, but what was great about it is I would have never known those people’s stories had I not watched that movie, and it helped open me up to understand people who I might have never understood.
Some Christians are so afraid of sin they aren’t willing to get down and dirty and meet people where they are. We want non-Christians to “clean up” and come to our “clean church” instead of going out to them.
Jesus never set up a building for people to come meet him. He went to the people just like the characters in Dallas Buyers Club.
Linda A. Young
I’d push a like button for this comment. Thank you
Amy
1 Thessalonians 5:22 Abstain from all appearance of evil.
Stephen R.
Well said…
James H
Jesus, Friend of Sinners
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ipwEtvWL_3c
Amy
Hebrews 7:26 “For such an high priest became us, who is holy, harmless, undefiled, separate from sinners, and made higher than the heavens;”
Steph
Yes!!
Mae
I am so glad the Church Lady finally has a blog! Not sure whether or not God condones such blatant judgmental musings. Oh wait, I am sure; he doesn’t.
Suzanne Thompson
Agree with Hilary. Well said!!!!!
Leanna Ellis
Thank you and well said. His speech bothered me, but what bothered me most was so many Christians’ applause of it. One thing I would add, we should honor and applaud the many Christian martyrs around the world. Those are the people we should admire. But we should put no one on a pedestal. Usually I always watch the Oscars. It’s my night, like the Super Bowl is my hubby’s night. But this year, I didn’t much care to watch. Not for any solid reason. But my daughter (14 years old and an actress/singer) said, “I don’t want to watch the Oscars, because I don’t want to worship them.” So wise.
Logan
They let the first guy to win an award talk for a really long time too. He was going on about his mom’s story, gays, the Ukraine problems, and the Venezuelan problems. So let’s not just call out the guy who took longer than others to thank his Lord and all the other inspirations in his life, Okay? Okay 🙂
A Believer
Oh, how I love it when Christian legalists call a film “filth” because it isn’t pretty, or portrays people as messy or messed up, or doesn’t star Kirk Freaking Cameron. The film was appropriately rated for an audience of adults. McConahghey’s character cursed a lot, as do PEOPLE in REAL LIFE. His character was not a very polished, moral person, and McConaughey played the character with astounding, raw authenticity. That’s what you do when you want to tell an authentic story. Look, you don’t have to like him, or the film, or Hollywood, or whatever else you hate because it doesn’t fit into your little evangelical-conservative rose-colored stained-glass sanctuary; but now you’ve decided to make a judgement about a man’s heart. You don’t know him, and you surely don’t know his heart. Check your eye for planks before you run your mouth again.
Steph
Well said!
van
i have to say i agree to a point what you are saying, but for heavens sake! we do not have to watch the movie of peoples testimony to see how real people are. I can’t imagine watching the movie of the harlot mary Magdalen. I don’t need to see her sleeping with these men in detail. That ‘s just ridiculous to me. I don’t judge his heart, but I will judge the fruit. I probably will not watch the movie b/c of the “raw authenticity”. I also pray for the courage and strength to go where He sends me in the trenches. But I doubt watching this movie would help me. It may help some? ? ? But not seasoned Christians In my humble opinion :0)
Tim
Your name says you are “a believer.” In what precisely? From what I discern in your post you are a believer in your own ideology. Speaking of planks, remove the redwoods friend.
concerned about YOUR wording
“the teachers who go to school every day and live out the commands to love the unlovable and to value every life” Are you saying you think there are kids who are unloveable? That is just wrong! All kids are loveable. Why would you think any different, let alone post it. Seriously?? Please explain.
Tim
You are very naïve to think that all kids are loveable in today’s society. Some come from homes with absentee parents, have no boundaries, are rude, and extremely disrespectful to any authority. No, not all kids are loveable or easy to love especially when they don’t listen and are straight up rebellious.
2011momof2
I’m a vastly flawed human being who sincerely tries to love the Lord with all my heart every day. I pray someone doesn’t discount MY love for God by only listing where I’ve fallen short. It would greatly pain me to be called a liar in regard to my faith for being human.
Tim
Falling short? Huh? Did you get paid for falling short as he did by acting out parts in movies? He had a choice to accept the roles. It was deliberate and rehearsed time and time again. You are comparing apples with oranges. Jesus said that we will know if others truly love God by their actions. Don’t compare apples with oranges (your life to his).
“You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it. Beware of false prophets who come disguised as harmless sheep but are really vicious wolves. You can identify them by their fruit, that is, by the way they act. Can you pick grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? A good tree produces good fruit, and a bad tree produces bad fruit. A good tree can’t produce bad fruit, and a bad tree can’t produce good fruit. So every tree that does not produce good fruit is chopped down and thrown into the fire. Yes, just as you can identify a tree by its fruit, so you can identify people by their actions” (Matthew 7:13-20).
Me
You are a idiot Tim. And that isn’t judging, that is my opinion. Oh, and you need to learn to quote the Bible correctly. Cause like many, you take it out of context. Defend this post all you want but bottom line, she is no better than Matthew or worse either. No one is perfect and without sin. Have a good day.
Amy
“I’m pretty sure God doesn’t want us to judge others…” and “We are not called to be the judge of anyone or anything” False. Jesus said, “Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.” John 7:24
We cannot separate God’s love from the Truth. Many make mention of God, yet it is not in truth or righteousness. “Hear ye this, O house of Jacob…which swear by the name of the LORD, and make mention of the God of Israel, but not in truth, nor in righteousness.” Isaiah 48:1 In these last days, there are many professors, but He will say to them, “… I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.” Matthew 7:23
Janae
Great article! As for those who are calling you judgemental- you are 1/2 right we are not to judge others, but I’m pretty sure the Bible also says that we can look at people’s lives and tell what they are by the FRUIT they bear. I’m not a judger, I’m a fruit inspector. And I in return expect my fruit to be inspected as well. If you are going to call yourself a Christian, then you need to start living like Christ – loving other people, living a sinless life (to the best of our human ability), and calling others to sin no more, and glorifying God with everything we can possibly do.
Thanks Melissa for standing up!
Steph
How has Mathew M produced bad fruit in his life? He just glorified God on national television. Whereas, the fruit of this blog is to reinforce to sinners out there that they cant come to God because of their sin problem- the exact opposite of the Gospel. I call that really bad fruit.
Tim
The question is what G(g)od did he glorify? There was no mention of Jesus. There was no mention of the hope of salvation found in Jesus because of our sin problem. Just because someone mentions God it doesn’t mean squat. If you think the bog is bad fruit then perhaps you need to allow the Holy Spirit to heal your taste buds.
Rachel C
Matthew McConaughey did not ask to be “our next big Christian idol”. If you or anyone else makes him an idol, that’s your own burden to carry. He simply made an acceptance speech and thanked God for his talent. There is nothing wrong or shameful about that. God has used broken people to do great things. There are examples of that through out the Bible. If someone cannot sin and also give thanks to God, then I don’t think God will ever hear of our gratefulness, because we all have.
Layla
Oh ya! You are so right! We should all just sit around watching leave it to beaver reruns for eternity!! Correct me if I’m wrong but I thought Christ was within all of us and it shows by how we treat each other. If everyone truly lived by this I’m afraid I would not have read this silly blog.
Hilary
Christ being in all of us is not Biblical. That is New Age fluff that does not save.
Amy
Correct. The Bible teaches that we are all God’s creation, we are not all God’s children.
Lynn
It’s art! and if I remember right it is based on a true story. Matthew didn’t write the script nor did he actually live the actual tormented life his character portrayed. It was a sad story based on the life of a very “unchristian” or “forgiven” Christian, depending on his personal status with god upon his final days on this earth. It took very hard work for Matthew and his family to attempt to show the world how complicated, unblessed, and the hardship that is experienced by others who aren’t holier than thou” if you will. His character probably took a huge toll on him in his daily life and also on his family. Matthew is not Ron –Matthew exhibited to the world what a lot of us take for granted. His acting showed everyone what is a “real” life for some people! and some don’t get HIV or AIDS from reckless behavior. Some are born with it and others through blood transfusions. Just saying….
Pastor Benefield
Thank you for some common sense based on Scripture. Don’t worry about the hecklers. The holiness of God is being trampled under the feet of this vulgar culture. Yes, there were men in the Bible who had major failings, and it always brought major consequences. Yes, God still used them because He is merciful, powerful, and gracious. He is still grieved by wickedness. Hollywood will never present God as He really is, and just because someone claims the name of God doesn’t mean that He is involved in the endeavor.
ERB
Seems like you might not have seen the movie, or read what the movie is about, or know anything about it at all …
kddeshetler@aol.com
We are not to judge a person’s soul……but we can sure judge their actions! God says in his word….”Ye shall know them by their fruits.” Matthew 7:15. I’ll be the first to say that I am ashamed of some of my fruits……but I’m even more ashamed when someone causes me to see them in the mirror! Rarely do you hear this verse referred to……because it pricks! And yet we are always glad to pull out the verse in Matthew that says, :”Judge not, lest ye be judged.” What Jesus DOES NOT MEAN is that we are forbidden from expressing our opinion on right and wrong. This is what the sermon on the mount assumes…. that we will use our critical powers in making ethical and moral judgments! Jesus says in Matthew 7:1 “Don’t give what is holy to dogs or pearls to pigs, and beware of false prophets.” Not my words…….God’s words! Argue with Him who is holy, but above all don’t do the very thing you are telling others not to do……and judge them for expressing the teachings of the Father! There is a difference in judgment and condemnation. And the bible is full of moral and ethical absolutes! Ye shall know ME by my fruits……and if they are rotten, by all means please, in love, remind me! I would hate to go around smelling bad all the time and be so used to it that I’m unaware of it! I hope that after Matthew expressed his desire to follow God (and let me say that I never heard his Son, Jesus, praised in that speech, which is exactly what God calls us to do) that his future endeavors will reflect it……but you be the judge!
Suzanne Koelling
there is no scripture stating if we praise God and not the son we are in the wrong, just because he Thanked God doesn’t mean he didn’t at other times thank Jesus, but here is the one thing that gets me, when did he ever profess Christianity, he could be Jewish and just thanking God his creator
Mike Gantt
Reblogged this on Current Events in Light of the Kingdom of God and commented:
Here’s a lady who gets it right!
Suzanne Koelling
Here is the issue I have with him, what he said, and your blog. I don’t believe (my opinion only) MM truly understands what a relationship with God means. I struggle to tolerate the name of God and ego in the same statements. I also don’t think he exemplifies himself a Godly man (once again my opinion, but based on biblical fact). Here is my issue with your blog, you can’t judge a man’s heart. I have heard from several hard hitting strictly bible teaching preachers the sermon I refer to as “He’ll take care of the rest”. Basically this sermon Which is scripturally based states that when we accept Christ it is ok to be filthy, because he will make us clean as we grow. I have never heard him mention God before, I am actually a big fan. Maybe this is a new thing for him, we don’t know. You have to fall in love with God before you want to follow him, maybe he just fell in love. My point is although this seems as hypocritical of him to speak from both sides of his mouth in a way, maybe he is just learning and growing and this is why we must not judge. I praise God that MM gave him the glory, it shows the man knows we have nothing without God, and the bible says “God works all thing for the good for they who love him’. That means God can turn nudity cuss words, drug use and more for the good. just something to think about next time you want to publically criticize someone. It isn’t Godly at all and it helps no one.
Suzanne Koelling
Also he never professed Christianity What if he is Jewish and doesn’t believe in Jesus, is he not allowed to Thank God? Christians don’t own God.
Hilary
We don’t own God. God owns us. Jesus claimed to be The Way, The Truth and The Life. He said that He is God and no one comes to the Father except by Him.
Suzanne Koelling
HIlary because it won’t let me comment on your comment, I as a Christian understand that, but my point is mentioning his name or even thanking him does not equate Christianity, here you and other’s are claiming him a bad Christian (paraphrasing not quoting) and he has yet to claim Christianity. He thanked God I saw the speech I was moved because of his passion and less about what he said. I however never heard him say “I’m a Christian” or anything like that. All though the bible says he’s wrong, if he happens to be Jewish or of another religion this whole conversation is mute and well, even if he is Christian we don’t know where his walk is and therefore can’t say his heart and he might have been being as pure and raw as possible. Hilary what you did here is make new Christians realize why they always hated Christians good job!
Hilary
Suzanne, I only shared what Jesus said. If you need the exact reference I can give it to you. Saying that what Jesus Himself said is driving people away from Christianity is ludicrous and full of holes. Do you see what you just did?
Hilary
Also, you are reading into what I have said. I did not even come close to saying he is a bad Christian because I don’t really know where he stands. I have been responding to those who are responding to what MM said. You are working from perceptions rather than fact.
Hilary
You also rambled and did not make a whole lot of sense. Sorry.
James H
I’m not here to argue with you about MM. But I am curious about your reliance on PluggedIn’s movie reviews. I’ve read the site for years and occasionally find some inconsistencies worth noting.
For example, after giving us a laundry list of the debauchery in Dallas Buyer’s Club, PluggedIn says: “…we’re also asked to excuse and accept a slew of bad—sometimes illegal—decisions and actions, while staring wide-eyed at searingly seedy depictions of strip clubs and sexual encounters.” This after declaring: “Dallas Buyers Club offers a wince-inducing peek at what life for homosexual AIDS sufferers may have been like in the early years of the disease. …we’re invited into a world that those outside the gay AIDS community depicted here have likely never thought much about before. The empathy the film builds for individual human beings who are suffering and dying can only be seen as a good thing.”
Compare that to what the film has to say about Lone Survivor, Mark Wahlberg’s violence and profanity packed ode to our military misadventures in Afghanistan. After telling us that LS features “sexualized references to male and female genitalia … Well over 150 f-words. … a couple handfuls of s-words and a steady trickle of “b‑‑ch,” “b‑‑tard,” “d‑‑n” and “h‑‑‑.” God’s name is linked two or three times with “d‑‑n.” Crude references are made to sexual body parts. A few rude jests are shared by SEALs, including a quip about watching their “c‑‑k and balls” (A “few rude jests”, I like that rather benign description. What’s that about “let no unwholeseome word proceed from your mouth”? Oh, well…)
Yet, in spite of all of this “filth that turns hearts away from God [and] poisons the hearts and minds of our men, women, and young people” PluggedIn recommends the film, saying: “This is a movie that emotionally and caustically challenges us to think about the virtues of self-sacrificial brotherhood, service to country, honor and bravery. It lauds the ability of some to drive themselves to near-impossible levels of physical and mental toughness. And it shakes its cinematic head in awe over how men can willingly put themselves in harm’s way to fight for freedom and justice, sometimes even when that freedom and justice is meant for foreigners they have no personal connection to.
The film also makes it clear that acts of humanity and decency are alive and well, even on the battlefield. And that those are not solely flag-waving American attributes. They are traits, it tells us, that are woven into the fabric of communities found in any part of the world. And they are traits that somehow manage to survive the stranglehold of violence that otherwise chokes Lone Survivor.”
Now, I ask you, where is the difference between these films? And where is the difference between Matthew McConaughey and his God-honoring, humility-filled motivational Oscar speech; and Mark Wahlberg, who in spite of being a former ganger member, ex-con, and admitting to robbery, assault, and attempted murder, and the content of film’s like Lone Survivor, Four Brothers, and the gutter-dredging The Departed, is praised by wewalkwithjesus.org, http://www.catholicvote.org, christianpost.com and countless other outlets for saying: “I definitely go to church every day. That’s how I start my day – I like to get in there for 15 to 20 minutes and say my prayers. … I pray to be a good servant to God, a father, a husband, a son, a friend, a brother, an uncle, a good neighbor, a good leader to those who look up to me, a good follower to those who are serving God and doing the right thing.”
James H
Contrary to the message of your post, and more in line with what Steph says below, I found this quote tucked at the end of another of your posts: One of the worst things you can do is reduce Christianity down to a moral thing you do, because it’s what everyone else who is moral does.
~ Paul Washer
So, which is it?
Suzanne Koelling
Boom! Well said James
Steph
So we can judge someone by their fruit? Ok. Matt M just glorified God on national tv. This blog just sent a message to the world that says sinners are unacceptable to God- the exact opposite of the Gospel. Its misguided messages like the one in this blog that sends hoards of people running from God and Christians. Now THAT is bad fruit. This doesnt seem like a blog Jesus would write but it seems like one a Pharisee would write. Note to Christians: you dont get extra bonus points for being self-righteous. REALLY, really think on that. When you are in His Presence does he talk to you about how this and that is unrighteous or does He comfort and love you and make your heart sing? If you believe that He is really telling you to “take a stand” and engage in some morality war, then I am not talking to the same God as you.
Hilary
The God of the Bible does not do just feely good things, Steph. He convicts me too. He tells me what needs dealing with. He is my Father who tells me like it is. He makes my heart sing when He knows I need it. But like a good Dad, He says what He needs to say, when He needs to say it, how He needs to say it.
Kathryn Ross
THANK YOU!!! So glad you said this. I thought it and just looked the other way not wanting to even broach the subject thinking it a waste of time. Actually – more concerned I’d just get all soapbox and emotional. I was not impressed or convinced for all the reasons you’ve noted here. How foolish we are to jump on any Mush God bandwagon with so little discernment. Not something to be lauded – more of an oxymoron. Glad you took the time to bring some sense to all the whoot-whoot’s out there.
Joy!
Kathy
James H
“Because salvation is by grace through faith, I believe that among the countless number of people standing in front of the throne and in front of the Lamb, dressed in white robes and holding palms in their hands (see Revelation 7:9), I shall see the prostitute from the Kit-Kat Ranch in Carson City, Nevada, who tearfully told me that she could find no other employment to support her two-year-old son. I shall see the woman who had an abortion and is haunted by guilt and remorse but did the best she could faced with grueling alternatives; the businessman besieged with debt who sold his integrity in a series of desperate transactions; the insecure clergyman addicted to being liked, who never challenged his people from the pulpit and longed for unconditional love; the sexually abused teen molested by his father and now selling his body on the street, who, as he falls asleep each night after his last ‘trick’, whispers the name of the unknown God he learned about in Sunday school.
‘But how?’ we ask.
Then the voice says, ‘They have washed their robes and have made them white in the blood of the Lamb.’
There they are. There *we* are – the multitude who so wanted to be faithful, who at times got defeated, soiled by life, and bested by trials, wearing the bloodied garments of life’s tribulations, but through it all clung to faith.
My friends, if this is not good news to you, you have never understood the gospel of grace.”
― Brennan Manning, The Ragamuffin Gospel: Good News for the Bedraggled, Beat-Up, and Burnt Out
Hilary
Jesus said to the prostitute, “Go and sin no more.” He did not make excuses for her sin.
James H
Prostitute? Brush up on your Bible, Hilary, it doesn’t say that.
It does, however, say “He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone…”
Hilary
You are right, I said prostitute rather than the woman caught in adultery. That does not diminish what He said to her. He said “Neither do I condemn you. GO AND SIN NO MORE.” Brush up on it yourself.
Suzanne Koelling
but if she did sin again, he would again show her grace and mercy because that is what our Lord Jesus would do, as I said in an earlier post. The goal is to Welcome the Lord into our lives accept what he has done for us, then he works in us to make us worthy, that doesn’t mean we will stop all sin immediately if it did, we would never need him again past the moment of salvation
Hilary
Suzanne, in one of your posts you said, “You Christians think you own God.” I am then to conclude that you are not a Christian, yes? If you are not a Christian, why do you sit here and make statements like you are a Christian? You wander back and forth with your logic.
Erin
I completely agree with this post. Christians today have become so tolerant, and worried about offending anyone, that they have begun to create God in their own image. For those that like to quote “judge not lest you be judged”, please read the whole chapter. He calls us to judge others by their fruit, otherwise how would we be held accountable for things we do wrong? I fully believe that God is love, and is rich in grace and mercy. But the bible also says that it is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God. In Romans chapter 1 the bible says to not only avoid all forms of sexual immorality (fornication, adultery, homosexuality, etc) but also to not approve of anyone who does those things. We have to take a stand for God’s truth, and hold each other accountable. He will return one day, and we will all be held accountable for how we represented His truth. We need to start taking Him more seriously.
chris
Excellent response! Great actors, great athletes, great business people, great leaders are gifted people however godly character trumps giftedness.
Thanks for exposing the deception impacting the body of Christ and that is being concerned about the praise of men and not the praise. Eph 2:10,’ For we are His workmanship created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them. ‘ Matthew is an actor. I hope that he has a real relationship with the ‘Son of God’. It would be great for him to use his platform to promote a God glorifying movie.
belle
You are right. I never watch MM because his movies are filthy. All of them. But, I am shocked ant heartsick over the response that you have received for your forthright and honest words. Many will call on the name of the Lord and he will say “I do not know you” (paraphrased from Matt 7: 21. If Mr. McConaughey wants to call on the name of the Lord, then we need to hold him accountable for his actions, past and present. I Corintians 5:12-13 says (paraphrasing) that we are not to judge the world, God judges the world. We are to judge within and purge! Verse 13 says, “God judges those outside. Purge the evil from among you. Matthew 18: 15-17 tells us how to deal with a brother or sister in sin.
All of these Christians who rail against you for pointing out the obvious need to be cautioned for their error. If you are thrilled that MM mentioned God in a speech, then you are looking for your heroes in the wrong places. Turn off the tv. Turn off the movies that are filthy. Turn off the music that is filthy and put Godly things in your mind and thereby into your heart. We are in agreement, but if you are like me, you are heartbroken at these respsonses.
If anyone reads this, then they’ll probably lump me in with you, the writer, as judgmental. But I challenge those readers to dust off their Bibles and read I Corinthians 5. Maybe even the whole book.
Linda A. Young
I think you are wrong to criticize him. I like that he acknowledged God even though he knew he would he made fun of, and it was a powerful message to the world. I didn’t think he would be put down by Christians. Maybe he is still growing as a Christian, and I hope he has a chance to make some movies that give glory to God, now that he’s got everyone’s attention.
kddeshetler@aol.com
If you want to praise a “celebrity” take a look at LeCrae! Read about his story. I’ve never been crazy about rap……but this is one rapper I love! Listen to his words! All kinds of talk about change and being a new man! An example of how Christ can take a talent and use it to his good…….and it is reflected in the speech and the actions……not mistake there……no double talk…….no words without action! That’s an example of what Christ does to a man’s heart. Watch Billy Graham’s “My Hope” where he uses LeCrae in his video! Awesome example of using your talents for the Lord!
cbgrace
Wow. I didn’t find this blog “judgmental” or condemning of Matthew McCaughey
merely a declaration that the writer does not consider him a hero for mentioning God. A lot of people believe in God but do not follow Jesus Christ.
Melissa, I apologize to you that so many people have been hurt by the church and other Christians that their perception of a simple declaration is that it is judgmental.
Dear commentors, a church or a Christian let you down and even hurt you. That shouldn’t have happened to you. Jesus never meant or planned that for your life. I am sorry those things happened to you. God heals. He is good and His plans for you are good.
Not everyone who has an opinion is “the church lady” or is a judgmental jerk. It’s an opinion and you are welcome to have one too. There really is no need to tear others down to state your opinion.
If you all believe in Jesus and read your Bible, there is no justifying the filth that our Hollywood is producing. They will keep producing as long as people continue to see it.
Matthew isn’t my hero either, he is just a guy who makes movies.
Steven
I have read several of the responses to this blog and it is very ironic that many of you are judging this blog for judging MM. That is somewhat inconsistent, don’t you think?
Nicole
Excuse me. I stumbled onto this article through Facebook, and I am…appalled. Are you seriously saying that Christians don’t have Christian idols throughout mainstream media, sports, and entertainment? That you, as a group, are somehow underrepresented in day to day life? Seriously? Let me tell you, from an outsiders perspective, as someone who is not only not a Christian, but who is a proud, unabashed, unashamed athiest. Christianity is so prevalent, and our society is so inundated with Christianity and “Christian idols”, that I can’t turn on my television, look at my Facebook, or otherwise exist in this modern age without someone thanking Jesus for their accomplishments, acknowledging their Christian faith, or otherwise glorifying God. In fact, it happens so often, that after having watched the speech, I didn’t even hear anything out of the ordinary! On the other hand, any time someone actually has the nerve to admit to their lack of belief, they are vilified relentlessly by those same idols that you claim don’t exist. I have nothing against Christianity, and am quite close to a number of faithful Christians, including my mother, and I would never disrespect your faith or the God you follow. However, please don’t try to portray yourselves as some sort of persecuted body who never gets any acknowledgement for the daily struggles you go through to have your beliefs perceived by the public at large. From all of us who have a different background or believe something that your idols can accept, we hear you. Loud and clear. You don’t need any more idols. We’re the ones fighting for the right to express ourselves without fear of reprisals.
Ingrid
This blog author is 100 percent correct. It doesn’t matter what swill, what rebellion against God they are actually promoting, if they mention God, well, isn’t that just WONDERFUL? No, it’s not. Because every time this happens it sends the message that rank disobedience to the Bible does not matter. All that matters is what comes out of our mouths about God, even as our life blasphemes God and destroys the souls of others. Shame on the Biblical illiterates in evangelicalism who perpetrate this on social media and thank you for writing the truth!
John
The fact that so many Christians are so quick to celebrate Mr. McConauhey’s speech and supposed Christian walk, and then quickly attack someone for having the nerve to speak up about how wildly inappropriate the movie itself speaks volumes for how pathetic modern Christianity in America is. Our American Christianity only embraces the “love” of God while completely ignoring HIs Holiness and righteousness. We somehow think you can just be a peachy little Christian while ignoring what God spells out in His word. IF, yes I said IF, you were a Christian then you are supposed to endeavor to grow in your Christlikeness and Godliness. To hate what He hates and love what He loves. To, as the scripture says, Come out from among them and be separate. I fail to see how praising a man for making millions portraying a filthy human being, engaging in countless immoral acts (acting in a scene or not, he is married folks. Is it ok to pretend to commit adultery simply because you are “just” playing a role?) and glorifying sin by giving it such a platform is Christian behavior. I also find it telling that so many “Christians” who posted to support Mr. McConauhey claim to be Christian yet admit to not going to church. Hmm…funny then that our entire NT speaks to assembling, gathering together, and corporate worship. But hey…you can support a man who pretends to be gay, an adulterer and runs around naked…so you probably don’t really care about what the Bible tells us anyways.
Tobias Thompseen
Guys, I don’t see how can he call himself a Christian if he’s not starring in Christian films. He’s just making garbage. He should really be doing more movies like Kirk Cameron. Not only can Cameron act, but he’s using his talents in excellent films like Fireproof. We need more movies like Fireproof and Courageous that can shine the light through all the darkness Hollywood creates. Movies that preach a message to all those dumdums who really need it.
Stop making movies like Dallas Buyers Club, seriously How Did This Get Made?
Korrie
Ouch…how would you know what his movies were about unless you had watched these “less than Christian” character portrayals you are mentioning? You are just as much to blame for watching them as he is for making them…
Neila Cornelius
I was one of those Christians posting MM’s speech after the Oscar’s. Your blog has given me pause for thought. I was surprised by his thanking God as I would not have suspected he was a believer until he made that speech. While I respect what you have to say in this blog, I take some exception to your words concerning MM chasing himself. I did not take his words to mean he idolized himself. Rather, I took his words to mean that he was constantly trying to better himself, re-evaluating himself every ten years and setting new goals. And shouldn’t we all be doing exactly that? Trying to better ourselves and become the best person we can be? As Christians, we strive to become more Christlike. Does MM strive to be more like Christ? I don’t know. He didn’t say.
JPthePJ
This is difficult as I do agree he shouldn’t be on a pedestal but he is in hollywood and tailors films to what some people in the real world go through. As the saying goes, “…it is simply acting.” Denzel Washington is a very devout christian but you would disagree with this statement after watching some of his movies, especially “American Gangster.” Only take his speech on a superficial level, not digging too deep to “knick pick”, he thanks God which is an amazing thing. We should be content with this.
Jen
I’ve read through the blog and several of the post for both sides. To be honest it makes me a little sad. I’m not going to be condescending on here to any particular person but I will say this via the scripture. “And the scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman caught in adultery, and having set her in the midst, they said to him (Jesus), ‘Teacher, this woman has been caught in adultery, in the very act. Now in the Law Moses commanded us to stone such woman; what then do You say?’ And they were saying this, testing Him, in order that they might have grounds for accusing Him. But Jesus stooped down, and with His finger wrote on the ground. But when they persisted in asking him, He straightened up, and said to them, ‘He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.’ And again He stooped down, and wrote on the ground. And when they heard it, they began to go out one by one, beginning with the older ones, and He was left alone, and the woman, where she was, in the midst. And straightening up, Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, where are they? Did no one condemn you?’ And she said, ‘No one, Lord.’ And Jesus said, ‘neither do I condemn you, go your way. From now on sin no more'” (john 8:4-11)
kddeshetler@aol.com
My favorite expression. “It is God’s job to judge, the Holy Spirit’s job to convict and my job to love.” Billy Graham. When I refer to judging someone’s actions, I mean in determining whether their actions reflect those of Christ. In determining who and who you will not hold out as a “hero”. This does not mean that I think that you should not love or pray or care for those people. That is absolutely the calling of a Christian, to be a servant and to serve the Savior of the world, Jesus, and take his message to the world. By no means allow yourself to identify with a life of sin or those that will cause you to fall, but examine yourself and grow in His work in you. Matthew McConaughey never mentioned the name of Christ. Therefore, we don’t even know where he stands in that regard. And, yet, Christians everywhere were ready to put him on a pedestal and call him a hero, because he mentioned the work God. This calls for the critical judgment that I mentioned early…..not judgmental…..but judging his worthiness to be referred to as a “Hero” to Christians. The sad thing is as soon as a pastor or a Christian leader falls oftentimes people are ready to tar and feather them!
Linda
Haven’t read all of the comments…someone else might have already said this. Thank you Matthew for giving God thanks in front of millions who need to see that He is still honored, even by some who are a part of Hollywood. I don’t like the subject matter and images of much of Matthew’s films. And I haven’t seen them but from what I did see…I think the message in the movie was about caring for those who had AIDS. Even though they made bad decisions in their lives, they are still human beings whom the creator loved. They lived bad lifestyles and they suffered consequences. But we still, as Christians, are to have compassion on all and love…however else would we ever win someone over to Christ….yes, by being Christlike. It is one thing to present the word of God about sin and another to judge others. That is God’s job. We are to direct them to His way, love them and let God do the spiritual work. No, Matthew should not be worshipped, but a simple appreciation is certainly in order for anyone who takes a stand for our Lord, who defies the odds and chances of being ostracized by his peers…to publicly give thanks in front of millions. Kudos Matthew…now, let’s pray for him that God will lead him in the path that He would have him go. Just makes me believe even more that God had a hand in who would win because He also knew who would give him credit and honor. 🙂
Patrick W
This piece was written by a true Christian. Pious, judgemental, focussing on other instead of on self, and of course presuming to know the mind of God enough to pass judgement on who He approves and disapproves of. What a waste of two minutes of reading time.
Laurie
Just a little more, I was thinking when he was talking that I have no idea where his walk with God is , is it fresh? Is it just starting to take root? Is it long but crooked path? And then I got to thinking how wonderful it is that, wherever he is on his journey, that he stopped to thank Him? And in front of people who may chastise him for it ? So I applaud his stance and hope he feels encouraged by Christians to go deeper and continue on his journey with God!!
Mandy
Wow. I definitely think what’s happening here are a lot of judgements… Which is not what The Lord calls us to do. All of these supposed Christians on here are bashing each other- which is also not what The Lord calls us to do. WE are the church. WE are called to love one another, not bash and judge one another.
Melanie
First let me say I never write on people’s blogs because they have a right to write what they want there however this has been opened up to everyone so here I am. I like Matthew, he is not my hero but I do like him. My question to you is do you even know where he is in his walk with the Lord? For all we know he is a baby christian and now he is getting blasted because he stood for the Lord in his comment. Many christians keep quiet because as soon as they open their mouth they are bombarded from both sides. Would it not have been better to come along side of Matthew’s profession of faith and compel him to be better rather than to pick apart his christianity? To give him love and acceptance and let God convict him at the right time? Your writing is very good and I have read a few other pages but this one I have a problem with. Judgement belongs to God and God alone.
Bewildered
Matthew took a big risk for an actor confessing that he calls on God. It could even have an impact on his image in Hollywood and future film roles. If it inspires even ONE person to stand up for their faith no matter what the cost, why would you want to take it away from them by discrediting the experience?
Mandy
P.S. I am a Christian. I watch the movie ” Magic Mike” and it actually had a very good story of how a man decided to get out of that business and make something better of himself. Id watch it again.